"Hello Thekla, I am a follower of yours on YouTube and admire you, I'd like to stay anonymous but need to share with you my problems and worries...
I'm a 49 year old woman, divorced for the last 5 years. I have 2 children who are now 14 and 19,
I divorced my husband because he was cheating on me with another woman for quite a long time and I couldn't live my life living with him and pretending everything was ok. We had an amazing house together which he made us leave! And he was wealthy but tight and made my life a misery. He still is stingy. He doesn't support his children as he should and my eldest son despises him for having a relationship with another woman and they recently had a child. This is hard for both my children to accept, because, until now, he was hiding the fact that he was seeing that other woman. And all of a sudden they have a new sister! He doesn't want to support my son financially with his studies but has the money to raise another child! Very upsetting! I am struggling to make ends meet and love my children dearly so it hurts me to see them hurting.
I am with another man which of whom my children have no knowledge of and he is married and living in a miserable marriage as he says. His wife found out about our affair and came to my home to confront me which is when I found out she is 8 months pregnant! Who he says is not his and they have no longer a sex life which I find hard to believe now. He says he's in love with me and has reason to believe that his elder child is not his also…
I am confused and upset and want to end it as I wouldn't want to have any man permanently in my life now which is what he says he wants but I most definitely don't.
Pls advice me (always a follower).xxx"
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