When you know how to forgive someone who hurt you, you create a huge amount of power in your own life. Forgiveness isn’t about setting the other person free, it’s about setting yourself free.
Holding onto grudges is just far too toxic, and it restricts you into a very specific way of being. You have to take on the character of someone who is bitter, resentful, angry and so on… And when you don’t forgive, you HAVE to act as that bitter and angry character whenever the other person enters your thinking.
Naturally being this character will then affect how your days, your weeks, and even your years go...
Refusing to forgive someone for something they did, is like drinking the poison yourself but expecting them to die from it.
Stop drinking the poison
Refusing to forgive is one of the ultimate forms of victimhood. We make the other person accountable, we give them the power, we give them the ability to control our happiness, and we essentially chain ourselves into their reality in our own minds.
By refusing to forgive and holding a grudge, we become their emotional slave.
So, how do you let it go and forgive them?
You take responsibility.
They didn’t do something TO you, they didn’t MAKE you a certain way… They just did things (for their own reasons, and because of their own programming). “Things” happened, and you CHOSE to perceive those things in a certain way, create your own meanings behind them, and then create pain in your life because of it.
That’s what we humans tend to do.
But by accepting responsibility for the fact that we’re CHOOSING to be hurt, we can change how we see the other person, and set ourselves free from our own expectations of how they “should” be in the process.
You’re responsible, they’re not responsible.
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