Coffee With Carmen: The Importance of Being Selfish

Being selfish gets a bad wrap. The truth is, being selfish is essential to your success. It hurts when I see people post on Facebook that they are so lonely, or their significant other doesn't care about them, or (insert woe is me issue here).

We should feel our pains, our hurts, and our frustrations, and then we need to do something about them. If you stop at the complaining stage things will never change.

If you are pouring everything you've got into a relationship and you feel unappreciated, and resentful, I'm here to suggest to you that you need to start putting yourself first. The importance of being selfish cannot be overstated!

When I say "be selfish," I'm not suggesting that you trample others; I'm suggesting that you practice self-love to fill you up so that you have more to give to others. You can't pour from an empty pitcher!

If you are doing everything for everyone else and leaving your needs unmet, you are giving your power away. Don't give your power away!

Let me know if this topic resonates with you.

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