Is he|she going to change?

I'm asked this question by clients more than any other. So I came up with a blueprint that they can use to help determine for themselves whether their partner (or situation) will change ~ AWAIT. The steps are Awareness ~ Willingness ~ Action Plan ~ Implementation ~ Tracking.

I discuss how this problem plays out - 3 main scenarios that I've observed, including my personal past situation. I walk through what each of the steps looks like and how you can use them in a way that you can feel self-empowered. I give a few examples. Then I end with a couple specific tips to also help you make a conscious choice of how to move forward with more confidence.

The goal of this process is to pinpoint what you DO have direct influence over, so you can make traction on making positive changes, or figuring out what is not likely to change. That way, you spend your time and effort on what will change instead of wasting time on trying to change something that will never change. It's all about optimizing your time and effort, so you can be self-empowered.

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