How do you know if you're in love with a difficult person? 😬 I'm going to share 8 crystal clear red flags that shout 'toxic relationship' and you need to be aware of!
And yes, you can still be in a relationship with someone like this... it's just a lot safer, and saner, if you know what you're dealing with and how to navigate it so you don't lose yourself in the process. (or worse)
HIGHLIGHTS OF TODAY'S EPISODE:
- Eight clearly visible narcissistic traits you can identify if you're with a #Hijackal
- Why you cannot change the traits of a #narcissist, and why #Hijackals won't change themselves
- Reasons to step back, get perspective, and make changes now to take your life back
- Why #Hijackals are NOT introspective and NOT self-reflective and why you have to stop hoping they will be
Do you feel like everything is always your fault?
There's one sign. Now, for seven more!
Are you tired of being wrong? #Hijackals--those relentlessly difficult toxic people in life--cannot be wrong, so everything HAS to be your fault.
That's exhausting, right? And, of course, it's not true.
If you stay with a #Hijackal for long, you may begin to second-guess yourself too often. You may question your sanity. Or, you can get so worn down and torn down, that you don't have any self-esteem or self-confidence to call on for much. Let's stop that, ok?
Now, is the time to tune into these eight crystal clear signs that the person you're loving--the person you are hooked on and hope loves you--is NOT THAT PERSON you thought they were. In the beginning, they did all they could to "get" you, and usually as quickly as possible. It was dreamy. Now, it's a bit of a nightmare!
You've bent over backwards to accommodate their needs, wants, and desires, and you're left bent, crooked, and out of shape emotionally. That's not right! That's not fair! That's not healthy!
#Narcissists do this all the time. They suck you in so they can spit you out. You don't want to leave because they have you hooked, so you take their verbal abuse, and you may not even see all the emotional abuse they are dishing out, too.
I want to help you with that. If you're ready to make better decisions about your relationship, let's talk. Right away! BeAClient.com
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