Answering to the following email: "My dearest Thekla I'm contacting you to ask your opinion on my current situation...
I am Cypriot woman, currently residing in UK and a subscriber on your YouTube channel. I am thrilled about the vlogs in English!
I have currently left my husband and am now living alone my main concern was and still is my darling boys...
At first, my eldest son thought I was selfish and that I wasn't taking him and his brother into consideration, but I had a very good talk with him and opened my heart to him and he now stands by me extremely.
My youngest lives abroad and is lucky not to be close to live all my experiences like my eldest son. He wants me to be well and happy as I'm sure my eldest son does too, but he is still living at home and with his father as I was the one who wanted out. Which means I have weaknesses to whether he affects him in any way which is upsetting for me.
I love my boys and worry that they might think of me any differently as of what they have as their mother so far.
I have feelings for another man, who is married. We have had a wonderful sexual and intimate relationship we have so much in common and we have an amazing connection, which turned out to be too much for him so now after having a short break, now wants us to occasionally have sex. But this is not the reason I ended my marriage, not this man. My marriage was dead and buried years ago.
I wouldn't want my boys to find out but I am still have strong feelings for him and don't know what to do. Please advise me as I respect your opinion as you are an amazing intelligent professional psychologist and I admire your work.
Sincerely yours xxx"
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